The High Court has awarded €120,000 to a man after finding his life was effectively ruined when he was sexually abused by a teacher in school in the 1960s.
The man, who is now in his 60s, told the court the teacher carried out the assaults on a number of occasions when he was in fifth and sixth class in primary school.
The abuse involved the boy being called up to the teacher’s desk, while other pupils in the all-boys school were told to put their heads down on their desks, and the teacher then put his hand down the boy's trousers and fondled his genitals.
He hurt the boy on a number of occasions, subjected him to physical assaults and verbal abuse and, on one occasion, the teacher tried to put a finger in his anus but stopped after the boy started to struggle.
Mr Justice Michael O'Higgins said the defendant had "effectively ruined" the man's childhood.
The abuse occurred when he was on the cusp of puberty, threw the boy’s life off course and was made worse by the fact that he could not turn to his father with whom he was not on good terms, he said.
Bottled up
For a large part of his life he was unable to tell anyone about the abuse and effectively "bottled up this secret" which came to a head after he learned the teacher was still alive, the judge said.
Among the effects on him was that he became very protective towards his own three children and joined parents groups and committees concerning activities in which his children were involved.
He also became obsessed with cleanliness and the trauma affected his intimate relations with his wife, the judge said.
The abuse caused him to develop depression and post-traumatic stress, particularly after he suffered two accidents in which he injured his back, he said. It also led to suicidal thoughts.
It also, in a self-fulfilling fashion, caused him to lack the necessary capacity to take steps towards undergoing therapy and taking medication to help towards recovery, he said.
Given his age, he is unlikely to return to work, but is talented musically and is a skilled mathematician with an impressive work history, the judge said. This showed much of his potential remains untapped within him, and he will hopefully find the strength to tap it and prosper, he said.
He had illogically blamed himself for not reporting the abuse to the authorities, the judge said.
Guilt
It seemed that when giving evidence the man felt guilty for not telling anyone what happened, but it was important to stress that he was in no way to blame for what happened, he said.
He was the victim of a perpetrator who abused his position of trust as a teacher and availed of it to abuse a pupil in his care, he said.
The court had given judgment in default of defence against the defendant earlier this year. This decision was communicated to the defendant's lawyers and he was notified of the assessment of damages date.
Mr Justice O'Higgins said the case proceeded in his absence and, after hearing from the plaintiff and his medical experts, the judge said he would give judgment later on Thursday.
However, when the case returned, the court was informed the defendant had turned up after the case had been assigned to a court on Wednesday. He had left an email address.
The judge directed the registrar to contact him by email to tell him he could appear before the court on Thursday and when he did not respond to that, the judge ordered that he be sent another email to tell him he could do so on Friday.
When he failed to turn up on Friday, the judge went ahead with giving his judgment.
As well as awarding €120,000 in general damages, he awarded the plaintiff his costs.
If you have been affected by any of the issues raised in this article, you can call the national 24-hour Rape Crisis Helpline at 1800-77 8888, access text service and webchat options at drcc.ie/services/helpline/, or visit Rape Crisis Help.
