Michelle Obama’s mother, Marian Robinson, has died at the age of 86.
Mrs Robinson died peacefully on Friday, the former US first lady and her brother, Craig Robinson, and their families announced in a statement.
“There was and will be only one Marian Robinson,” they said. “In our sadness, we are lifted up by the extraordinary gift of her life. And we will spend the rest of ours trying to live up to her example.”
As well as being the mother of the United States’ first black first lady, Mrs Robinson was also unusual for being one of the few in-laws who lived at the White House with the president and his immediate family.
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Until January 2009, Mrs Robinson had lived her entire life in Chicago. She was a widow and in her early 70s when Barack Obama was elected in 2008 and resisted the idea of starting over in Washington. Mr Obama said the family suggested she try Washington for three months before deciding.
The first lady enlisted her brother to help persuade their mother to move.
“There were many good and valid reasons that Michelle raised with me, not the least of which was the opportunity to continue spending time with my granddaughters, Malia and Sasha, and to assist in giving them a sense of normalcy that is a priority for both of their parents, as has been from the time Barack began his political career,” Mrs Robinson wrote in the foreword to A Game Of Character, a memoir by her son, formerly the head men’s basketball coach at Oregon State University.
“My feeling, however, was that I could visit periodically without actually moving in and still be there for the girls,” she said.
Mrs Robinson said her son understood why she wanted to stay in Chicago, but still used a line of reasoning on her that she would use on him and his sister. He asked her to think of the move as an opportunity to grow and try something new.
“As a compromise, I opted to move to the White House after all, at least temporarily, while still reserving lots of time to travel and maintain a certain amount of autonomy,” she wrote.
Granddaughters Malia and Sasha were just 10 and seven, respectively, when they started to call the executive mansion home in 2009 after their father became president.
In Chicago, Mrs Robinson had become almost a surrogate parent to them during the presidential campaign. She retired from her job as a bank secretary to help shuttle them around.
At the White House, she was a reassuring presence, and her lack of Secret Service protection made it possible for her to accompany them to and from school daily without fanfare.
“I would not be who I am today without the steady hand and unconditional love of my mother, Marian Shields Robinson,” Michelle Obama wrote in her memoir. “She has always been my rock, allowing me the freedom to be who I am, while never allowing my feet to get too far off the ground.
Her boundless love for my girls, and her willingness to put our needs before her own, gave me the comfort and confidence to venture out into the world knowing they were safe and cherished at home.”
Her White House life was not limited to caring for her granddaughters.
Mrs Robinson enjoyed a level of anonymity that the president and first lady openly envied, allowing her to come and go from the White House as often as she pleased on shopping trips around town, to the president’s box at the Kennedy Centre and to Las Vegas or to visit her other grandchildren in Portland, Oregon. She gave a few media interviews but never to White House press.
She attended some White House events, including concerts, the annual Easter Egg Roll and National Christmas Tree lighting, and was a guest at some state dinners.
White House residency also opened up the world to Mrs Robinson, who had been widowed for nearly 20 years when she moved to a room on the third floor, one floor above the first family.
Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms out there!
My mom has always been my rock and I’m so grateful for all the ways she continues to show up for my family. She’s taught me so much over the years, and I feel so lucky that I get to pass that same wisdom down to my own girls.
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She had never travelled outside the US until she moved to Washington, taking her first flight abroad on Air Force One in 2009 when the Obamas visited France. She joined them on a trip to Russia, Italy and Ghana later that year.
She also accompanied her daughter and granddaughters on two overseas trips without the president to South Africa and Botswana in 2011, and China in 2014.
Marian Lois Shields Robinson was born in Chicago on July 30th 1937. She attended two years of teaching college, married in 1960 and, as a stay-at-home mother, stressed the importance of education to her children.
Both were educated at Ivy League schools, each with a bachelor’s degree from Princeton. Michelle Obama also has a law degree from Harvard.
Fraser Robinson was a pump operator for the Chicago Water Department. He had multiple sclerosis and died in 1991.
Besides the Obama family, Mrs Robinson is survived by her son, Craig, his wife, Kelly, and their children Avery, Austin, Aaron and Leslie.
